How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:00

How does one succeed in life?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Can you explain the difference between “mi piace” and “mi piacciono” in Italian?

That's it for today.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Night Owls Face Faster Cognitive Decline - Neuroscience News

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Making more friends is a goal.

Global Investors Suddenly Have a New Concern: A U.S. ‘Revenge Tax’ - WSJ

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What I need from you?

Country music singer opens up about HIV status, sexuality with release of new song - MassLive

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do the Republican city officials at Springfield Ohio continue to deny that immigrants are eating pets to sabotage the Trump campaign, even though immigrant pet-eating is now widely believed to be true?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I’ve tracked Amazon Prime Day for 11 years. Here are the 8 best early TV deals - CNN

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Angelina Jolie And Brad Pitt’s Daughter Shiloh Reintroduces Herself With New Name - HuffPost

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Eight killed after hot air balloon catches fire, crashes in Brazil - Al Jazeera

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do not set goals—set systems.

AI Translation Of Smash Bros. Director's Comments About AI Misses Nuance, Sparks Outrage - Kotaku

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

This Device Pulls Clean Drinking Water Out of the Air - VICE

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why do people still think Michael Jackson was guilty?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What was the first Native American tribe to inhabit Long Island, NY?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.